Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow – six more weeks of winter. Sigh.
Usually, we don’t care so much about what the seer of seers, sage of sages, prognosticator of prognosticators and weather prophet extraordinaire has to say about the seasons, but since these last few weeks have been particularly harsh for most of the country, we’re a little depressed now that spring seems further away.
You know what else has got us depressed? Our Ask Us Anything mailbag. It’s about to be empty, which should never happen. Surely you have professional and/or personal problems that you need us to weigh in on. Can you save your parking spot that you spent an hour digging out after the recent snowstorm with a traffic cone? What’s the best thing to do on a first date? How many licks does it take to get the center of a Tootsie Roll pop?
Our advice might not always be good, but it will be thoughtful and it is free. So please, submit your Ask Us Anything questions here so that we can at least have a ray of sunshine brightening our psychological skies.
And now, here is what we have to offer this month…
Dear Derek and Scott,
After reaching out to several supporters, I’ve noticed that some are happy to meet at the Alliance meeting while others are very clear that they don’t take meetings there. What drives supporters’ decisions to meet at the Alliance meeting, and why do those approaches differ?
Annoyingly,
Denied but Not Defeated
DEREK: This is a timely question considering the Alliance meeting is coming up in less than 2 weeks and I was just discussing this very issue with a couple colleagues last week. As a supporter, I’m happy to provide my thoughts on this situation and will take a crack at explaining the opposing view, too. As usual, I am compelled to provide a disclaimer that these are my own opinions, do not reflect those of my employer, blah, blah, blah.
My personal view of meeting with providers at the Alliance meeting and other conferences is that I am willing to meet and will try to agree to as many meetings as I can without driving myself nuts–accepting them on a first come, first served basis. I consider these kinds of meetings to be part of my job responsibilities and my role as a supporter. In general, I don’t have a lot of in-person external meetings throughout the year, so I’m willing to agree to more when attending conferences. Admittedly, part of my motivation stems from the years I spent working for CME providers in the first half of my career, so I guess I feel like I have a decent understanding of the value of these meetings from that side.
But let’s be honest, the true reason for this question is to ascertain why supporters don’t agree to meetings. I’ll offer three brief explanations based on conversations I have had with other supporters and my own experience.
The first reason is one of fairness and equal opportunity. If provider/supporter meetings are of value to the provider, and it is impossible to meet with every provider, then those who do meet with supporters are at an unfair advantage. If supporters can’t meet with every provider, then it is better for them to meet with no providers than some providers.
The second reason is to negate any appearances of bias and impropriety. We all know the work of CME is heavily regulated on both the provider and supporter sides of the equation. Some individuals and organizations feel the best way (or easiest way) to reduce the odds of getting caught up in any potential conflicts of interest is to avoid provider/supporter meetings entirely.
[Quick shoutout to Pam Wagner, who discussed both of the issues above in a recent LinkedIn post.]
The third reason, and the reason I concur with more than the first two, is simply one of time. These meetings take a lot of time and can make it difficult to enjoy the full conference experience. I’ll use myself as an example. For this year’s Alliance meeting, I received 20+ requests for meetings and have 14 scheduled, not counting evening meals. Along with those meetings I also have a session to moderate, try to catch up with friends I only see at conferences, and hopefully attend a few sessions as well. I have no idea how this compares with other supporters, but I assume they receive a similar number of requests and some likely even more. I share this not to brag or anything like that–it’s just how it is. This is probably oversharing, but for me, face-to-face meetings sap my energy. I’ll be exhausted by the end of the conference and start to lose my voice partway through from all the talking. When I decline a meeting request, it’s because I’ve reached the saturation point in my schedule. It’s not you, it’s me.
SCOTT: I don’t have a lot more to add here as I have never been on the supporter side, though I can certainly understand the concept of “meeting fatigue” that Derek cites. While I have never been a big fan of provider capabilities presentations, I do understand the value of personal relationships in our field and have always appreciated the willingness of some supporters to provide me with a glimpse of how their specific organization is structured and the way it which their team determines which education they do/don’t support. In many ways, I prefer this to happen during casual interactions rather than forced discussions during scheduled meetings, but I understand this occurs by happenstance and simply luck in running into someone you were hoping to meet.
Dear Derek and Scott,
I am thinking about submitting an abstract for presentation at CMEpalooza Spring along with one of my colleagues, but I’m not sure if our idea is any good or if we even have a chance at being accepted. Plus, neither of us has really presented to an audience like this before, so we’re kind of nervous that we’re going to make fools of ourselves.
Do you have any advice so that can make me feel better?
Sheepishly,
Nervous Nelly
SCOTT: You’ve come to the right place, Nelly, because Derek and I have years upon years of experience in making fools of ourselves. In fact, that would be a great name for our band if either of us was musically inclined (sadly, my instrumental career ended back in 5th grade when I put down the viola for good).
We often hear from people who kinda sorta think they have a good idea for a CMEpalooza Spring abstract but either they are too shy, lack confidence, or just get too preoccupied with other things to remember to submit it for consideration.
(Quick aside: This is a good opportunity, of course, for us to remind everyone that there are less than 3 weeks until abstracts for our Spring event are due. You can get all of the details on the submission process by clicking here).
We always consider CMEpalooza to be a low pressure kind of presentation atmosphere for a number of reasons:
- You are not physically “seeing” your audience so there is no intimidation into looking at a sea of faces staring at yours. With a virtual event like ours, there could be 1 people watching or 1,000 (in reality, it’s somewhere in the middle). It really doesn’t make any visible difference to the presenter.
- We encourage fun and creative approaches to education. You won’t have the pressure to come up with a long slide deck, unless you really want to. You won’t have the pressure to develop pages and pages of notes to keep you on track, unless you really want to. While we don’t encourage “winging it” without some sort of plan, we also don’t require any specific plan of attack. You can figure out your own preparation preferences.
- We love seeing new faces present. While I admittedly will attend some sessions presented by longtime friends and colleagues who I admire at live events, one of the benefits of CMEpalooza is that you get a time slot with no competing session AND your session can be viewed as soon as it’s completed in our online Archives. Which are there forever and forever. All for free.
- I’ll let you in on a little secret – we don’t get hundreds of great submissions to consider every year. We never know exactly how many submissions will come in, but your odds of being accepting for a presentation slot are significantly better than last week’s Powerball, for which your bought 10 tickets.
Derek, you want to add anything? I know your top 10 lists, so I left you a few to fill in. You are welcome.
DEREK: How very generous of you. No, I think you have covered the main points pretty well. I do want to reiterate that CMEpalooza is about as low stress an environment for presenting as you can find while still reaching a decent sized audience. And if it helps, we’re happy to lie to you about how many people you are actually presenting to, since you won’t be able to tell (“What’s that Nervous Nelly? How many people are watching your session? Oh, it’s only a handful, and one of them is my mom. Nothing to worry about. No truth at all to the rumor that we had 250 people watching the previous session. OK, maybe there’s a little truth to that rumor, but only a little.”)
